聴く人

投稿者 その他 on 2010/05/07 pm 07:45 by kuni

こんばんは、しなえです。

今日はちょっとまじめな、スピリチュアルな？、仕事の話。

私は、

｢癒す人｣
｢癒し手｣

というのは、

｢聴く人｣

だと思ってます。

お客様と一対一で、私は耳を傾ける。

お客様が実際に発する声、お話を聴くのはもちろんのこと、

実際には話されない話、黙ったままのお客様の声も聴こうと、手のひらや指先に神経を集中します。

触覚ではなく聴覚をつかって、筋肉の発する声をどうにか聴こうとして。

ほぐす技術は、その声に応えちょっとだけ手助けしてあげるものだと思ってます。

疲れきって、表情も強張ったお客様。

余裕がないときによく知らない人と会話するなんて誰でも面倒です。

そういうお客様が施術の後、一瞬でも笑顔になった時。ほんの少し雰囲気が緩んだように感じた時。

話し下手な私はほっとして、声を出さなくても会話ができるのはほんと良い仕事だなあと思うのです。

 

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  1. ちーなべ（仮晴男）
    2010/05/07/ at 10:20 PM

    マネージャーは聞き上手だと思いますが、それよりも
    会話の引き出し上手な方と思います。実は施術中部屋の外から
    聞こえるマネージャーとお客さんの会話を盗み聞きしてる時が
    あるんですが(Uちぃごめん(汗))、マネージャーが話す少しの
    言葉でお客さんがたくさん話をし始めている印象があります。
    私もマネージャーと話すときは不思議といつもより言葉が多く
    なる感じがします。

    素敵な才能です。

  2. ちーなべ様、ありがとうございます(^_^)

    これからも沢山のいろんなお話を聴き続けていこうと思います。

    お話や疲れをどんどん引き出して受けとれるようにキャパを広げていくことと、溜まったものをこっそりポイッと上手に捨てられるようになるのが目標です[GOOD!]

  3. ほっしゃん
    2010/05/08/ at 1:10 PM

    そのうち妖精と話ことができるよ(^j^)

  4. アンドリ
    2010/05/08/ at 4:04 PM

    マネージ、またスキル上げたんですね！。
    施術受けたいので、時間作って行ければいいなと思っています。
    その時はワイロも持っていきますね(笑)。

  5. ほっしゃん様

    妖精さんとお話なんて、ステキ♥

    …とか言いだした日には、スキルアップよりもまずこいつ２日ぐらい寝てないんじゃないかと疑ってください。

  6. アンドリ様

    だいぶ疲れがたまってるようですねぇ〜。
    ご来店楽しみにしてます！
    ワイロはもちろん懐からこっそりと渡してください^^.^^

  7. 昨夜はお疲れ様＆ありがとうございました(-.-)
    久方ぶりにKUNIにおじゃまして、しなえさんの相変わらずの素敵な笑顔とレベルアップした丁寧な施術に心身ともに癒されました。(*_*)
    また次回もよろしくです

  8. さか様、こんばんは[月]

    昨日はご来店ありがとうございました！
    さか様もあいかわらずの優しい笑顔で、安心しました(^_^)
    からだにはお仕事の大変さがばっちり出ちゃってましたけど;;ちょっとでも楽になられたようでよかったです[温泉]

    いつも沢山お気遣いいただいて恐縮です。しかもグッドチョイスなものばかり！ありがとうございます◇

    またお時間とれたらいつでも、ゆっくりしに来てくださいませ[お茶]

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